Parents Cancel Kid's Birthday For His Entitled Brother, He Tells His Entire School

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    Font - r/entitledparents · Posted by u/Holden-Position-4 10 hours ago O * 2 3 e 3 3 Parents decided to cancel my 14th birthday party to accommodate my spoiled younger brother. Reinstated it when I told everyone at school XL I'm 20m, and his happened when I was 14. I have a brother that's about six years younger than me. And he was extra coddled by my parents for having been diagnosed with high functioning autism when he was 4. But other than that he seems very normal, just unbelievably spoiled.
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    Font - her visits, she let loose on them for such blatant favoritism. They returned my 3DS immediately, then blamed me for the situation after my aunt left. But they didn't make me give it to my brother again. Instead my parents went out out a few days later and bought another 3DS as a surprise gift for my brother. On several of mine and other people's birthdays brother made a huge fuss because the party wasn't all about him. Even going so far as to my outright state that he was upset because he
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    Font - and chastised them on their favoritism yet again. And stated how much she had noticed how my brother gets nearly everything between the two of us just because he's autistic. My parents got no support from anyone else there other than my brother, who was still crying because he wasn't getting to blow out my candles. And because he didn't get his way, he tried to outright spit on my cake out of spite. But my awesome aunt thankfully blocked him before he got the chance. Then scolded him till
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    Font - The following year a couple of weeks before my birthday my parents sat me down and told me they were still gonna get me some gifts and a small cake, but my birthday party was effectively canceled to avoid my brother having another meltdown. I told them I couldn't believe they were doing this to me, and they just seemed to shrug it off without a care. So at school over the next week I told my friends, my teachers, and even my school counselor. All of them were appalled by my parents' lack
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    Font - I thought my party was still canceled because nobody said anything about it. And my brother thought it hilarious and rubbed it in my face that I wasn't going to get to celebrate. But by the end of the two weeks my parents held a surprise party for me at my favorite restaurant. And then started claiming that was their intent all along. I knew it wasn't. From what I'd seen everyone was incredibly unhappy with them for what they did. And it showed with any interactions family members had wit
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    Font - My brother of course made a huge fuss that I got that surprise party. But with so many of my friends and their parents there, my mom and dad finally put their feet down on my brother to stop his tantrum when he wanted to push my cake off the table. My brother ended up getting a time out for the first time since he was a toddler, and my mom had to stay with him to make sure he didn't do anything crazy. And he did try several times to run to the cake or stack of presents. Who knows what he
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    Font - My parents never tried to cancel my birthday again while stil| I lived with them. Though they never again tried as hard or spent as much. For the remaining four years I was under their roof, my birthday parties consisted of a local pizza parlor, a cake without even my name written on it, and never again anything as expensive as a new gaming system. I don't mean to sound spoiled. But I was a bit disappointed I never got a cake with my name on it again. My aunt called my parents out on that
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    Font - During each of my remaining birthday parties while still living at home my brother made a fuss, and my mom took him somewhere else to calm him down. I was still required to share my PS4 with my brother. But it was still mine. And I took it with me when I moved out at 18. Little bro did not like that, and had a huge fit till my parents went out and bought another PS4 for him.
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    Font - When I moved out they finally had to deal with how they'd raised my brother so spoiled because I wasn't there to help them with him anymore. On his recent 14th birthday he went mental on our parents for not getting him a PS5. He is now currently grounded for I don't know how long after causing hundreds or maybe even thousands in collateral damage during his rampage. He picked up a chair and just started destroying anything that was in front of him with it. And my parents just looked menta
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    Font - parkesc · 9 hr. ago "My parents learned the hard way that they couldn't enable my brother the way they'd have liked at those parties. And were actually kicked out of a few for trying." You mean they were kicked out of parties multiple times before it stuck? It must have been weird to be more of a grown- up than your parents. 1.7k Reply Share ... Cool_Ad_9357 · 9 hr. ago I would also like to hear about how they tried to make some other kid's birthday party all about your brother. A birthda
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    Font - Fantastic-Mud5929 · 9 hr. ago It took that many people calling them out before they did something? The relatives chastising them wasn't enough? It had to take a whole school and small community. Damn, I fear that one day your kid brother will be in jail. 464 Reply Share •.. ShutTheFuckUpAmy · 8 hr. ago if he managed to cause thousands in damages over a non-expensive birthday, then this kid is definitely going to do something horrible if he doesn't get his way as a fully-grown adult. OP's
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    Font - TheCookMan1 · 9 hr. ago I'm 35 and havent gotten a happy birthday or present from my parents since I was 8. Parents suck dick. 209 Reply Share J3ebrules · 8 hr. ago My fiancé is the same way. His twin was the golden child and got everything. Doesn't get shit to this day, at 31. So sad - some people just shouldn't be parents. 126 Reply Share
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    Font - Myrko6902 · 10 hr. ago damn you had it rough too. in my case the roles were reversed and the non-autistic older sister got all she wanted. unfortunatly i didnt have a nice family to back me up (luckily with the exception of the husband of my grandmothers sister (NOT EVEN A DIRECT RELATIVE)) and my birthday has been completely forgotten 4 times with the exception of Wim who called me to whish me a happy birthday (he couldnt visit because he lived 4 national borders away) 421 Reply Share
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    Font - Xeira_games · 8 hr. ago Well something you can do now if you'd like to, is just buy yourself a cake. Name on it, favourite filling etc. There doesn't have to be a reason for cake besides cake itself. 73 Reply Share wmdkitty · 7 hr. ago Cake is enough of a reason for cake! 33 Reply Share

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